From the monthly archives:

December 2009

Suckage to Usage Ratio

by Jessica on December 29, 2009 · 0 comments

in Conscious Living

The team over at 37signals writes a pretty awesome blog. It is mostly tech-focused since they make web-based software, but I find that a lot of their topics have broader applications as well. Take today’s genius post about the suckage to usage ratio, for example. The basic idea is that when creating a product, it’s okay for some features of the product to suck if they are not the most important or frequently-used features. So often the pursuit of perfection, in software, in projects, in life, can get in the way of progress. As a recovering perfectionist, this concept really resonates with me. Focus on what really matters and don’t worry so much about the rest.

There is an eternal contest in my mind between the following aphorisms:
If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing right.
The perfect is the enemy of the good.
If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing half-assed.

Mostly I try to side with the last two in that list, lest I drive myself and everyone around me insane. I predict that the suckage to usage ratio will become another tool for me to use to combat the inertia that comes along with the pursuit of perfection. Focus on what really matters and don’t worry so much about the rest. Focus on what really matters and don’t worry so much about the rest. Focus on what really matters and don’t worry so much about the rest. Practice makes perfect, right?

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Holiday Traditions

by Jessica on December 26, 2009 · 0 comments

in Broken Back, Family, Food

Joe Strummer guarding our Christmas tree
(That’s Joe Strummer watching over our 50’s kitsch Christmas tree)

I’ve always enjoyed my family’s holiday traditions, and now that I’m a mom I am getting pretty amped up about establishing our own unique traditions. When I think about holidays growing up, I think about eating pumpkin pie for breakfast on Thanksgiving (and sometimes on Christmas, too), watching The Nutcracker on PBS on Christmas Eve, and of course watching A Christmas Story on Christmas Day. This year, I did none of those things! And oddly, I didn’t miss them too much, I suppose because we are in Texas away from family and because so much of our focus right now is on just getting through the days with the whole new baby and broken back situation.

Ideally I’d like to continue most of my childhood holiday traditions as well as create new ones for our little family. Of course most of the possible traditions I’m thinking of involve food! Some ideas include:

  • Seven Fishes Christmas Eve Dinner
  • Board games on Christmas Eve
  • Driving around to look at holiday decorations before Christmas
  • New pajamas for the kids on Christmas Eve
  • Eating something other than turkey for Christmas dinner–maybe a beef roast of beef bourguignon
  • A special New Year’s Eve or New Year’s Day meal. Or maybe I should just get to decide on the New Year’s Day meal every year since it’s my birthday!
  • New Year’s Day hike (I’ve actually done this several times when it’s been freakishly warm, but I’d like to institute it as an official tradition!)

I’d also like to get in the habit of making Christmas cookies each year. This is something I did a lot in my high school and college years, but stopped doing as I got older and more focused on healthy eating. I am still enamored with healthy eating, but I want to provide balance for my kids in terms of having some treats for special occasions. I mean, I grew up gorging myself on Halloween candy and Christmas cookies and I turned out okay! I like the idea of having “signature” cookies that I make each year, but I’m also given to experimentation in the kitchen so who knows. Some options I’m already considering for next year:

All that being said, the real purpose of this post isn’t to tell you about our traditions, it’s to find out what your traditions are. I love hearing about the special and unique things that people do around the holidays, things they look forward to and that really “make” the season. So spill ‘em! What are your favorite holiday traditions?

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Boot Lust

by Jessica on December 22, 2009 · 2 comments

in Fashion, Lust List

I’ve always had a rough relationship with boots. I love them. I want them. I need them. Yet they rarely fit my narrow feet and skinny legs properly. I’ve also made some poor decisions regarding knee-high boots with very, very high heels that resulted in me feeling like boots in general were evil and uncomfortable. (Me, in heels? Happily? Um, no.) Over the past year I have finally started to figure out what works for me in terms of fit, comfort, and style. Unfortunately, the past year has also been a year of major cost-cutting due to our transition to a single income. But a girl can dream! Below is a selection of the boots I am currently lusting over.

Madewell Archive Flat Boot
Madewell Archive Flat Boot
I actually owned these boots for a couple of weeks in late summer, but I felt horrible guilt about spending the money (see aforementioned single income), so they went back to the store. I am hoping they’ll go on major sale after the holidays so I can justify purchasing them then. If I get them I will probably cut a couple of inches off the top so they hit at a more flattering height for my leg (as is, they hit right below my knee, and I prefer a shorter boot).

Fiorentini & Baker
Fiorentini & Baker Blink
These are hot, no? I’m really into practical boots that I can wear without worrying about getting them wet or scuffed. Since I am now a stay-at-home-mom, my fashion has to be functional in dirty environs such as the park or playground. A boot like this would stylize and add personality to my usual uniform of jeans and a tee but would also look fantastic with dresses or leggings (if you’re into that sort of thing, which I am not).

Sendra 2944 Motorcycle Boot
Sendra 2944 Motorcycle Boot
A slightly cheaper version of the Fiorentini & Baker motorcycle boots above. And the bonus is that these are available locally and they fit! I’ve found that many engineer or motorcycle boots are cut way too generously for my feet and legs. I stumbled upon these at Allens Boots in South Austin and it was instant love the second I tried them on. The leather on the shaft is extremely soft so they have a bit of sassy slouch when worn.

Justin Roper
Justin Roper
Thanks to the magic of eBay, a pair of these sturdy boots is now in my possession. I have wanted a pair of Justin Ropers for several years but maintained that I would only purchase them in a local store once we’d moved to Austin. However, when a pair popped up on eBay recently for $30 I couldn’t resist since the retail is over $100. Aside from a huge price break, another bonus of buying used is that they are already broken in! They are also made of this awesome leather that distresses really easily so they don’t look as dorky and shiny new as the photo above.

J. Crew Sienna Moccasin Bootie
J. Crew Sienna Moccasin Bootie
These are kind of a funny thing. I am not, and have never been, a fan of moccasins. Not in shoe form, not in boot form, and I don’t like fringe! Ever! Yet I find these booties strangely attractive. I think part of it is the lovely soft gray color, and I guess the other part of it is that they are a bit distinctive because the fringe runs vertically up the seams instead of in a ring around the top like you usually see with moccasins. I would leave the laces up the back tied loosely so I could just slip my feet in and out. I am picturing them worn with black skinny jeans, a cognac belt with a brass buckle, and a thin, slouchy off-white tee with a wide scoop neck. That would be some hot playground style, don’t you agree?

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Candy Cane Kisses

by Jessica on December 21, 2009 · 3 comments

in Food

Hershey's Candy Cane Kisses
photo via moonjuice

Our awesome nanny Tara recently brought over a bag of the most insidious candy I’ve ever encountered: Candy Cane Hershey’s Kisses. They are mint-flavored and have itty bitty bits of candy canes in them. Have you ever had them? I didn’t even know they existed until this year, which is a good thing, because that bag we got on Thursday? Yeah, it’s gone. I’ve been binging on those Kisses for four days and I still can’t say I even like them that much. But they are tricky little buggers and have an addictive quality that causes you to eat 10 of them in rapid succession and still want more.

The funny thing is that when Tara showed up with them I thanked her politely while thinking really snobby thoughts about Hershey’s chocolate and how it’s crappy and I don’t eat it. But of course I had to try one of these seasonal Kisses since they were a gift and I’d never had one. Oh man. These are not a quality treat but they are creamy and minty and the candy cane bits provide the perfect amount of subtle crunchiness. What else can I say? They’re dangerous, stay away unless you like to over-consume poor quality sugary foods that trick you into thinking they taste good.

It should be noted that I had to borrow a photo from flickr because there were no Candy Cane Kisses left in our house for me to photograph. I couldn’t risk buying another bag because they are evil insidious little bastards and I clearly do not have the self-control required to resist their siren song.

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